So I talked to DH last night about the possibility of having more kids.
His response...... was disappointing.
He said that if we have another girl, then we're done having kids b/c he doesn't want to risk having a 3rd girl. WTF? He tried to give some lame ass excuse of not wanting to deal with 3 teenage girls and all that mess and I had to remind him that uhm... teen boys aren't exactly always sunshine.
He said that if we have a boy, then MAYBE we could try again.... but that's a big maybe.
Just ugh... so disappointed with his attitude. If it was just a "Oh I just don't want to have a 3rd. It will be too expensive... etc" that would've sucked too but I would've at least understood that, but to say not wanting the possibility of having a 3rd girl? WTF kind of sexist answer is that, and yes I did say that to him.
So yeah.... there ya go.
I'll probably bring this up with him again, especially if this does end up being another girl, but with his attitude.... looks like this will be our last.
UGH I just don't get it. He adores DD and he's not some weird macho sexist guy at all, so his response just totally caught me off guard and like I said just made me really disappointed in him.
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